Growing up as a child is not easy because you have to make decisions for yourself and your children. At some age, maybe 18, you can expose your child to the world and allow him or her to make all the decisions. However, you can still suggest it to him even now.
Things are a little different before the baby arrives. You have to help her make decisions and some decisions can make a difference in her life. The fact is that there is a time to look for each child. At this point, you want to answer the question of purpose and why you are here.
Often, these questions lead to important decisions such as choosing a career, preferred place to live, a life partner, and more. Therefore, the parent will start playing at this time. I have read about various decisions that some parents have made about their children but not the children.
For example, I have seen a child with tattoos all over his body. Since artwork may look fun, a child would like to be left with the choice of deciding whether to get a tattoo or not. Another example is personal and I will explain.
Thus, I became part of a Buddhist group. Here, I have participated in all the activities that include yoga. I was a demanding person and I was a considerate person. This time was a good time for me even though I felt lonely.
In time, I decided to leave my convent for the sake of raising a family. The fact is, as I look back on my life back and days as a dreamer, I am glad that I chose the new life of parenthood.
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From Sweet Mama Jane.
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