Marriage is a relationship that requires a high level of commitment. Of course, you can agree that it comes with a lot of good times before the union. The ceremony process is another delightful occasion for couples and aspirants who look forward to it.
In time, friends and well-wishers are no longer in the picture. This puts the whole burden on the couple because they are responsible for the marriage and whether it will work or not. Most of the time, most decisions are made before the wedding or during the honeymoon.
Both couples have different important decisions to make to keep their marriage. It includes the number of children they want to have, the place of residence, the type of work they do, and other such cultural responsibilities. However, an important part of this is the exchange of gifts.
Gift-giving is said to be the language of love and helps to ensure that there is love between the two parties. Gifts were distributed during birthdays, anniversaries, and the Christmas season. Also, there are always a variety of gift options to choose from. Parents can give their children presents while children can also learn from their parents.
Here is an example of a letter a wife goes to her husband about Christmas presents.
He is a wonderful man in many ways — a loyal friend, a strong, loving father, a hard worker, and a breadwinner — and for that I am grateful. But I can no longer forgive you for one thing: Christmas gifts.
I understand you are busy. I’m busy too. But that doesn’t stop me from thinking, buying, and packing thoughtful gifts not only for you but also for our baby, my family, your family, and a few friends, neighbors, teachers, and service providers.
I cannot be a martyr and accept this as my destiny because doing so would not only be an insult to me but also an insult to you and our child, allowing you to fulfill the idea of a desert man rolling in the area. the feet of an old woman who will bear the burden and irritate you with her anger.
Instead of cooking, I will be straightforward and give you tips so that the upcoming Christmas will be true family stories that reflect the real reason we give to others. In other words, the worlds are gone …….
Let’s start small: Every family has a different culture and, for us, socks are important. Everyone gets stuck. Even me. You probably realize that your stockpile is full of year-round meals and specially selected tokens for you to enjoy. Newsflash: That was me. I’m sorry if I just pulled out your bubble about Santa but it’s true. So that means you have to replenish my stock. Please don’t make me fill my stock. That is sad.
And when I say fill, I mean “fill” —cocks are “filled” with stockpiles that are small, thoughtful, usually inexpensive gifts; you can’t take something under a tree and put it in a cell and do it. Or worse, balance overstock because it is too big to fit inside. That’s not stock, gift. Just put it under the tree. But do not leave the cell empty! Do not put a Toblerone in there and go! As I said, you have to ‘fill it.’ That sounds scary but all you have to do is go to the drug store and wander the streets for a few minutes. Here are some ideas: lip gloss, nail polish, flower polish, mint, socks, voting candles, handkerchiefs, and sample sizes of perfumes or cosmetics. You can do it!
Regarding gifts under the tree, I understand that it can be difficult to think of gifts from people, especially your beloved wife. But if you really can think of anything I would like, then we have a big problem; you may not know me well (always bad about marriage) or I may not have enough interests. Both of these things are very bad. But here’s the tip: about December 1st, just start listening to me. It’s that simple. Then spend some time thinking about me …… ..real-time, not just the time you spend waiting for your email to be uploaded — but also the meaningful time (lunch hour tomorrow? Your commute?) Dedicated to thinking about your wife… ……… .your favorites about me or what you want me to do, the things you see me do and hear me talk about. If I only talk about dates and times and dinner, maybe your gift to me should include time. Time with you or time alone or time to pursue a hobby or hobby.
But maybe I’m talking more than days and times with dinner (oh god I hope I’m talking more than days and times with dinner!) And, in these cases, PLEASE NOTE! I may have given you 5 ideas in one conversation about going to the library.
Or maybe I just gave you the biggest gift of uttering the words, “Do you know what I would love for Christmas?” If I go out and tell you what I would like for Christmas, you should get it for me. at Christmas. If that sounds like a police officer, feel free to get me another personal gift. As long as you don’t spend child college money and rent has been paid, I have many gifts!
And here I will emphasize the point that bears repeating, a gift does not have to cost count as a good gift; a thoughtful gift can make me feel loved more than an expensive gift that is not well thought out. The cost is completely off the point. Do you remember when you gave me a book tied to all my writings? Think hard! Remember when you gave me a gift card? And was it the same gift card you gave me last year? And was it? Not a thought. As opposed to thought. Do you remember how I took you out on December 26 so you could do something else?
At the time, I was very aware of what your lack of consideration looked to our child. So do-over.
I imagined her thinking that mothers do not receive gifts. Or that husbands do not enjoy giving to their wives. Or that moms are doing a holiday but they don’t get to participate in it. And by that time, our child had reached the age that he was too old to receive not only gifts, he also needed to GIVE presents. And, you know what? Kids love this part of Christmas! They love to give, bless their little hearts! And helping her buy me gifts is your responsibility. Don’t make my plan for you. And don’t think of it as a burden on your Saturday, but view it as an opportunity to draw closer to your child and teach him or her the importance of loving his or her mother and how much fun it is to have fun. Teach her about thoughtful gifts as opposed to expensive gifts (see above). Educate her on supporting private businesses. And make it fun by stopping the donut on the way home. Our baby learns to watch you, so the care and enthusiasm (note that I did not say money) you give me teaches him how to treat his mother. It also teaches him how to manage his future partner. She is building her future husband and that is a great responsibility. Do not breathe.
The following are not so important but will go a long way in showing your thinking:
Have you given yourself time to wrap up your gift? Or have you put it in a grocery bag and closed it? If you are not confident in your abilities, just do your best with what I have given you in the gift wrap box, or feel free to wrap yourself in the store. These people are experts and often spend a lot of time and effort making the gift look inviting.
Try not to go to the corner gift shop every year. Maybe you can go to the gift shop on the next corner? Just to mix it up a bit and show that you are willing to go one more block.
If you want your name to be included in your family’s gift-giving tags, you must participate in the gift-giving process in some way (without having to pay for it. Try it right). If you can’t afford to go shopping, maybe you can research ideas and go shopping. Or you can order some gifts online. Even wrapping gifts is considered an effort to give a gift (it also gives you ideas on what to give).
If in doubt, ask me what I would like. There is no shame in that. Use it as an opportunity to feel what is on my mind; it can lead to a good conversation about what makes me happy or what is not in my life. Thinking grows in knowing the thoughts and feelings of another person.
While plenty of gift-giving this season can be overwhelming and stray from the obvious, let us hold fast to the very purpose of giving generously ze .to celebrate. To find happiness in each other’s happiness. And in your very heart, acknowledging and giving each other the number of hopes and dreams each other.
Please remember, I am your wife, the mother of your child, and the so-called most important woman in your life. Give me a sign of love that reveals this simple truth.
That being said, I will always love you – even if you give me a gift card from last year.
With love and affection,
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