Are you thinking of moving in together with your partner? Congratulations on making it this far! Moving in together with your partner can be thrilling and blissful in almost equal measures.
According to statistics in the US, cohabiting among adults between the ages of 21 and 45 is about 65%, which has recently become rampant and is fast on the rise. Cohabiting presents its own array of challenges, from sharing spaces to house chores, personal hygiene, and finances. So, how do you know when it is the best time to move in with your partner? Well, here are a few signs to know when it’s the right time to move in together.
When you are comfortable doing embarrassing things around them,
When relationships are new like mint, we often hide mistakes from our partners. We dive deeper into the relationship, gradually becoming more aware of these flaws and, in time, becoming more or less paranoid about doing these things, for example, passing gas in front of our partner, snoring, eating too fast, or chewing too much. These are the undisputed shortcuts for most people, which is why there is a need for people to hide these flaws. If your partner is comfortable doing these things, at each level of intimacy, that is a sign that you are ready to move in together.
When you have the same level of cleanliness
Hygiene is important in the social journey. You need to be aware of their attitude toward cleanliness. Do they clean themselves, or do they leave the place dirty? If they bring out personal hygiene, then traveling together is a good idea.
You Are the Best Friends With Your Partner
It is rarely the best friend you can have with your partner. However, having a partner who is your best friend in a non-stick way is a good sign that it is time to stay together. ‘Non-Clingy’ in this context means that your partner has other friends to hang out with, and he or she doesn’t have to be with you all the time.
When Your Relationship Is Clear Without Questions
Although some do not see this as an obstacle, it is important to define what you have before considering the idea of getting together. Clearing the air, defining what you have, and knowing you are on the same page is a great foundation for getting together so you don’t find yourself “on the phone or in situations.”
When You Have Had a “Finance” Conversation
This is important before we get together. Negotiating debts and being on the same page is important for a successful relationship, as in most cases, the relationship ends because of this. Love and affection are often not enough; nor does it pay debts. If you have agreed as to who should pay the bills and how the bills are to be divided, it is a good sign that you are ready to live together.
Set Your Limits on Communication
Setting boundaries on a social network is a good way to start a conversation. If you are the type who spends most of your time on social media, your partner may be upset about this, as it may be the kind of flame that burns. However, if you have had this conversation and set boundaries successfully, and you both respect these boundaries, then it is a sign that you are ready to get together.
Once You Have an Understanding of How to Settle Disputes
Fighting conflict is almost inevitable in a relationship but understanding how they can overcome it is important. However, if you have been in a few battles and have survived them successfully, it means that you have come up with ways to resolve the conflict; walking together can be considered because it is an indication that you can always overcome these challenges when you are living together.
Conclusion
Social cohesion should not be seen as a big deal or an ANC action. If you are faithful for a long time and spend a lot of time together, then living together is easier. The above are just some of the tips and tricks that can be done before living together.