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As far as omens go, it doesn’t get much worse than this.

On a Wednesday evening a couple weeks ago, at about 7:30 pm, I proposed something radical: how about we eat on the couch tonight, while watching… the Yankee game! This was greeted with surprising enthusiasm. Abby and Phoebe marched over with their plates and plopped down next to me. Hey, great: they finally want to watch with me! We’re going to watch a baseball game together! I’ll teach them the basics, maybe work up to some nuances, even instill some passion – you know, pass down a little of what my father passed down to me when I was a kid. (My dad still goes outside and sits in his car at night, by himself, to listen to the Yankees on AM radio because it’s the only place he gets decent reception). Before long, they’ll be reading Ball Four and trolling ebay for Ron Guidry rookie cards! As Abby’s magic eight ball might say, all signs were pointing to yes.

Then the Yankees took the field.

“Daddy,” Abby said. “Who are the Jets playing?”

And just like that, the dream died.

Before I had kids I watched a decent amount of televised sports – not a troubling, catatonic-frat-boy amount, but come on, I grew up in America and am a member of the male gender, a fact which my tiny housemates never seem to comprehend. For much of my life, I probably watched a couple baseball games a week, a football game on the weekend, and yes, there were occasional fall Sundays, post-college, when I watched close to twelve hours of football in a single day. Not anymore. That’s partly because I have children of my own now and enjoy being with them and would feel guilty about ignoring them on a Saturday just to sit on the couch, watching Alex Rodriguez make money. But it’s mainly because I can’t get anyone to watch with me.

Believe me, I’ve tried. Phoebe, the old soul, will sit next to me and read her graphic novels for two hours while never once looking at the screen – or, worse, only perking up when the Coors Light commercials come on. (I’m worried those commercials will leave a mark.) Abby will sit with me, too, on occasion – though she will never ever sit still; her body will technically be on the couch, and I will be near her, but she will be jumping up and down or playing with half-dressed dolls or absent-mindedly kicking me in the ribs while lying on her back and singing the alphabet in Spanish and arguing with me about whether three strikes do, in fact, make an out — for five minutes, tops, before wandering off to terrorize the dog. Which leaves me by myself. A man gets lonely! And come on: I’ve paid my dues. I still know every Backyardigans song by heart, even the ones from that truly brutal episode where Tasha and Uniqua are the volcano sisters, dressed in grass skirts; I’ve watched Beverly Hills Chihuahua,not once but twice, and read both Pinkalicious and Purpalicious, while weeping inside; I’ve performed duets from Annie in front of a working video camera (note to self: must destroy those tapes), which is pretty much like announcing to the world that you have officially surrendered your manhood.

So: is it too much to ask for, to want to watch one game my children? To want a little bro time with my women?

The Yankees-Rangers game last Saturday was a little more successful, but I have a feeling it had more to do with the huge plate of chili cheese nachos I served up than the lights-out pitching performance by CJ Wilson. They asked some questions (What’s a foul ball? Which uniforms do you like better, Daddy?). They ate, they watched. At least until the fourth inning, when the nachos ran out and I was alone again. Hey, it’s a start.

For the Game Day Nacho recipe, click here.

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  1. Posted by: Julia

    Oh Andy! You just need to wait until your girls bring home boyfriends
    :-)
    they’ll be elated to find a bro in you… or not?

    Seriously, the family I grew up in was like yours, but I had the oldest daughter place. Your writing makes me wonder how much my father had to give up, although I guess it wasn’t all that much… Maybe it was that catching the games on the radio helped him have his own man cave, even if it was just a sound man cave? His daddy activities included long (very long, extremely long) walks, which made my sister and I, well, great walkers. It’s not exactly manly, but it was something my mother didn’t have and helped us bond. Reading fiction (mom only reads essays or research) was another score for him. He’s still alone in the opera listening, though… Lohengrin is still nobody’s idea of a fun Saturday afternoon.

    Just made me think… Now my husband and I are parents to a baby daughter. We haven’t discussed a second child yet, but I think if we could pick the second to be a boy or a girl it would be different, don’t you think?

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