The quiet close toilet seat from Kohler (French Curve Elongated etc) is a must have (really!) for parents with boys who are learning to lift the seat while peeing standing up. It takes a good 8 seconds for the seat to s-l-o-w-l-y close. no clanking. And it is easily removable, making clean-up around the hinge super easy and quick.
Would love ANY suggestions on actually getting the boys to aim into the center of the toilet. My boys seem to be the world’s worst marksmen. We got those starch peanuts but the novelty of sinking them wore off very quickly.